02 Oct Five Lessons from a Year of Transformation
A Return to Purpose Part 2: Five Lessons from a Year of Transformation
One year ago, I transitioned out of my time in full-time ministry at a church. What was supposed to be a part-time "creative outlet" morphed into something that would take 80%-90% of my time.
This transition was not just a change in job roles, but a profound personal journey. The introspection, the healing, and the growth that followed have distilled into five essential life lessons:
1. Everything is not forever.
Change is the only constant in life. Whether it's a job, a relationship, or a phase, everything has its season. Recognizing this impermanence can be liberating. My time in ministry was beautiful, but it had its allotted time in my life's narrative. Understanding that not everything is meant to last forever helps us embrace transitions and prepare for new beginnings with optimism.
2. Don’t lose yourself in the assignment.
While immersing oneself in a role or responsibility is commendable, it's crucial not to lose your essence in the process. I learned that our assignments, roles, or jobs don't define our entire being. We must stay connected with our core values, beliefs, and aspirations even as we dedicate ourselves to our tasks. It's this balance that keeps our sense of self intact and our passion alive.
3. You have to forgive.
In any journey, there will be challenges, misunderstandings, and moments of self-doubt. Sometimes, the person you need to forgive the most is yourself. Whether it's a decision you regret, a path not taken, or words unsaid, harboring resentment or guilt only holds you back. Forgiveness is a crucial step towards healing and moving forward with a clear conscience and a light heart.
4. Always do your best.
Every role, no matter how significant or trivial it may seem, deserves our best effort. Whether I was serving in the ministry or delving back into the business world, I realized the importance of giving each task my all. Doing your best not only ensures you leave no room for regrets but also paves the way for opportunities and growth.
5. Heal.
Healing is a deeply personal journey, and it's essential to recognize when you need it. As I transitioned out of ministry, I took the time to introspect, understand, and heal from my experiences. Emotional and mental healing empowers you to face future challenges with resilience and ensures you move forward with a sense of completeness.
As I look back on my year of introspection and transformation, I realize that it's these lessons that shape our narrative and determine our trajectory. Embracing them ensures that we live a life of purpose, passion, and positivity.